Can anyone share any insight on what t levels should be? My husband got checked and while they were in the normal range, they did seem sort of low. His sex drive is quite low... it always has been on the lower side but now it is much worse and sometimes he can't even.."get the job done" if you know what I mean. I have a really tough time with this because I recently lost a bunch of weight and actually feel really good about myself but it coincides with this and is heartbreaking. I feel unloved and unwanted.. He isn't a very affectionate person either which doesn't help. I had an affair a few months back (yes, I regret it but I was at rock bottom with a bunch of other stuff that was happening and our marriage was not in a good place) but I really miss that feeling of being longed for. I don't think I am unattractive and I am still young.. If its not the hormone levels I have no idea what it could be.