Solution For Me?I am in a marriage that has been sexless for about 5 years. On average my wife and I go 2 to 3 months between sexual encounters, but the longest we've gone was 10 months. I'm young, 31, and frankly want sex daily. Once a week, or maybe every other week, I think I could tolerate. This situation is driving me crazy though. Something has got to give.
We have gone to counseling, tried meds, talked about it (at length) repeatedly, etc. She always promises to "do better" but never follows through. She had ovarian failure which basically leaves her with no hormones and no sex drive. Hormone replacement "just isn't the same" in her words. Its like menopause, except menopause happens naturally and the body is ready for it. I know it's not her fault but I can't live like this.
I love her and she's my best friend, so divorce isn't an option. I know I'm a sensitive, loving guy, so any FWB I would get emotionally attached to. That wouldn't work, so I've turned to prostitutes. Just sex, and no emotional attachment. I've only seen one, and only once, a few weeks ago, but it did the trick. I carried a lot of guilt, but it got better, though it comes back from time to time. Over all though I think it could be an option for me. Any thoughts?
malrotic 31-35, M 14 Responses 0 Nov 2, 2012