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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Going To Denver In A Few Days

By: MiddleAge
Written on November 3rd, 2012
Well, it is decided. I am taking a solo trip to the Denver and Colorado City area in a few days. I will set my own pace, do what I feel like doing, take photos, and enjoy it thoroughly.

Does anybody have tips or suggestions for me? What would you suggest I see or do while I am there?

I wish I had a female friend to meet while I am there! Well, maybe someday that bit of wishful thinking will come true.

May each of you in this sexless marriage club find contentment some day.
By: MiddleAge
Age: 51-55 , Male
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    MiddleAge
    MiddleAge

    I am now back home. The vacation was well worth it. I am going to post a new story about what I did and learned.

    Nov 12, 2012
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    MiddleAge
    MiddleAge

    Well, I'm in Pueblo tonight! Not sure what I will do tomorrow, or tomorrow night. Maybe trek on up to Denver. I need to see how long it takes to get to Estes Park from Denver. In any event, I am happy to be here!

    Nov 5, 2012
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    Alljackedup
    Alljackedup

    I would recommend Estes park and the Rocky Mountain national forest. A cabin there right on the river ten feet away with something on the grill and a good scotch.

    With no schedule and nothing but connecting with nature will get it done for sure.

    Oh the Stanley Hotel guide tour will educate you highly on the history of Estes park.

    Have a good time man! We go up there a lot. Nothing like it and not that expensive.

    Nov 3, 2012
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      MiddleAge
      MiddleAge

      Definitely will check in to last minute deals on accomodations there. Just looking at it on the net it is very appealing to me. May be just what I need.

      Nov 3, 2012
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      MiddleAge
      MiddleAge

      Can't venture far without a companion if that is the case! I will stay around people, for certain!

      Nov 5, 2012
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    zsuzsilowinger
    zsuzsilowinger

    Biggest tip is to just reconnect with YOURSELF for a few days...

    Nov 3, 2012
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      MiddleAge
      MiddleAge

      I do agree. Time away from the pressures of the failed marriage and away from the demands of the office. I can hardly wait, but I just won't know how to act!

      Nov 3, 2012
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    MiddleAge
    MiddleAge

    I have been turning over in my mind the idea of actually meeting someone on my trip, either by design or by fate. The more I visualize it, the more apprehensive I become. It is like a barrier or an emotional wall. I am a bit afraid to broach it! Why? It is as if I am afraid of allowing myself to feel good! I gotta get out more!

    Nov 3, 2012
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      DeborahManning
      DeborahManning

      This sounds familiar. I look actively for opportunities to meet people, including those of the opposite sex, but don't always take them up.... almost as if HAVING the chance is the first step toward taking it. Which I suppose is true.

      I look forward to hearing more about your trip. Introverts, untie!

      Nov 4, 2012
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    tthetree
    tthetree

    Go out and socialise. Eat breakfast at the counter and chat to the person next to you. Find a bar where the patrons look like people you could talk to, pull up a bar stool and say "hi". If you're at a view point taking pictures near to others doing the same, ask them where they've been, do they like their camera or just say "quite a view" (assuming it is). Some people will be cagey, a few will ignore you, that's fine, they didn't want to speak to you. Don't let the loneliness and lack of intimacy in marriage stop you from being a warm outgoing person. Warmth and human contact are a spectrum, enjoy people and they'll enjoy you back. Think of it as easing back into the world of open people.

    Nov 3, 2012
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      MiddleAge
      MiddleAge

      Great advice! This is my time to get used to feeling positive and optimistic again!

      Nov 3, 2012
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    MiddleAge
    MiddleAge

    That wish to share the time is wishful thinking. I would not mind spending time with someone, but it is not in my nature to just hop in the sack with someone I don't really know. I did hope to get some input on what is worth doing in that area, but I am going more for the scenery than for man-made attractions.

    Nov 3, 2012
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    morningteatime
    morningteatime

    I'm not sure whether you're looking for travel suggestions or offering any ILIASM female members in the Denver area to PM you, or both!

    Either way, I have nothing to suggest.

    Nov 3, 2012
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    bazzar
    bazzar

    Tread your own path Brother M.

    Nov 3, 2012
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