Red Flag Compliation...I think we should compile a list of red flags that serve as early warning to sexless marriage. Here is one that cropped up yesterday with the girl I'm seeing:
Her: "Well, my friend has been dating her guy for like, four years, and I don't think they do anything more than kiss. Don't you think that is pure and innocent?"
Me: "No, I think it means something is terribly, horribly wrong. It means their relationship, in my eyes, is not real. It is fake, a phony, a lie. Or maybe they are asexuals, or they are gay and use the relationship to hide it. I think maybe they are sick, maybe they should see a doctor."
Seems like a flag to me. Respect is nice, but if pure and innocent is tied to lack of intimacy in her mind, then this is a no go. Will query further.
So, let's hear your red flags. What is in your early warning system?