Here Is A Reason To Not Stay For The ChildrenI have eluded to a damaged childhood.. boo hoo..
But for those that want to 'stay for the children'. here is a perspective.
My father was choking on vomit in the bathroom, I ran in, I had no idea what was going on . My mother said let him choke..
I ran next door to a neighbor and banged on the door. The whole family came running over to comfort my mother.
Oh sorry to leave you all hanging. No he did not die, but things just got worse. He left as soon as I graduated hi school. I moved the day after I turned 18. The only reason I even wrote this story last night was as adults we have so much to overcome when a childhood filled with coping. But the good news is, we don't all walk around as zombies, some actually make a place for themselves in this world.
Sexless marriage is a real setback and those who are afraid to leave, need to really get a hold of their fear.