Is It A Sm If There Is Still Some "intercourse" But No Connection?
We have sex, but it's so mechanical and empty for me. H really is clueless (by ignoring me telling him) just how bad things are to me. He says he "connects" to me via sex...but I only get 5 minutes of lovey-dovey before and after, aside from that it's "business as usual" with work, kids, and cleaning. Yes, there is sex, but it's not a connection if only one person comes away satisfied. So am I right to say I have a SM? I don't want to post any more of my replies in a place that is not appropriate, to be fair to myself and everyone else. Thanks.