LonelyWell after reading some stories I see that I am not alone. I have been married for 24 years. Sex was never really important to her to begin with and then after menopause it disappeared. That was about 15 years ago. We now are roommates, separate bedrooms and all. I have asked her to go with me for counseling to no avail. I am lonely and tired of always being turned down ( I keep trying ) I miss the cuddling, kissing etc.
I could use a friend to talk to as I can't admit this to anyone I know.