ArroganceTonight I was vilified by someone in this group that I tried to reach out with wisdom and kindness. What I got back was branding me of being an adulterer and a bad mother. I will not tolerate being vilified by anyone!
The attacks came one after another on every story comment and I realized that either I was dealing with someone with a personal agenda or a nutcase. The fact that I have been stalked by members of my husbands family gives rise to a personal agenda and that my husbands name was mentioned gives rise to a personal agenda.
Are peoples lives so void of meaning that they get some pleasure of trying to tear members down? There is a sickness here that I find abhorrent. It is a sickness of the soul. Making one's self feel better at the expense of another. Like a pack of dogs attacking a member of the pack.
My attack from a member of ILISM has me wondering if this is personal? Why would a member try to tear me down with so much animosity? I do not know this person. Simply gave some insights as to what works for me. Being branded an adulterer is beyond any ordinary interactions.
Know that I responded in a PM to my attacker in no uncertain terms that I found the snide remarks to hold no credibility in my mind however I do not want my time spent here to be a defense of who I am or my decisions for my life.
I am disgusted with judgment. Implications that I was and am a bad mother. I will fight and back down every person that attacks me in this way. No one will take away from me what I fought so hard to have. My self respect. If anyone attacks me I will give back far more then they can give.
I fought hard for my life as it is now. I owe no apologies and will give none. You want to have a go at me? Bring it on. No one will ever again try to make me feel less then who I am! That is me! My life and no one will ever try to diminish that ever again! Diane
dartist 56-60, F 15 Responses 17 Nov 14, 2012