Is It Ok To Look Elsewhere.I am a 42 year old woman. I have been with my husband since I was 21. Neither of us had had much experience before each other. For the first few years of our relationship our sec life was great. We got engaged then my hubby slowly lost interest. When we decided to start a family I was excited that I was finally going to get sexy a couple time a week. That never happened. I got pregnant immediately. Then the first time After my son was born then again soon after that. Although we had 3 small children I was always the one who wanted sex more. I talked to him continually about it. Being a woman whose husband doesn't want sex is very hard on a women's ego. All I ever hear is complaints from my women friends because their husbands always want sex. I honestly have felt ugly and undesirable because of this. I do know I would have no problem finding another man. I have been approached by several men. The problem is is that I love my husband more than anything. It would kill me to lose him but I am so tired of "taking care of myself". I want love sex and intimacy. I have had so many serious discussions with him. Always gets better for a week or two then before we know it its been one month then two and so on between sex. I want a husband not just a friend. I really don't think he will ever change. He has asked his doctor and the doctor blew it off saying he was just tired. Come on for 21 years. I find myself being flirty looking for someone to want me. I don't know what to do.
Jenlally 41-45, F 24 Responses 2 Nov 15, 2012