Sensual MassageThe wife's out of town and I am considering going to get a sensual massage. I spent time thinking about it and realized that this might be considered cheating? But then let's say I did get an erotic or sensual massage, would this then become a gateway drug to true infidelity? Would I eventually want to do more exploratory acts that just escalates?
When the idea first came to my head to get this massage I had no qualms about it. but now i am questioning whether it is ethical. The fact that i am questioning it must mean that it is wrong, right?
Like all members in this group, i missed being touched in an erotic way. sometimes to the point where it can be maddening. Has anyone here tried this and did they first talk to their spouse about it?
Oh! And did anyone stumble upon that news article about that woman who is divorcing her husband because he refuses to perform any of the sex acts she discovered from the 50 shades of gray? So funny how petty that sounds but I totally understand. I never read the book but if my wife wanted to explore anything from it, I would of course jump to the chance...