How Do You Tell People You're Divorcing?I went to a friend's birthday dinner last night and had to drop the bomb on a bunch of friends that my H and I are getting divorced. Of course they all wanted to know why. I didn't mention the SM part, but it's hard to explain my situation easily---it's not like there was some catastrophic event. Everyone I've told is shocked beyond belief, so they really want an explanation. I can't bear the idea of having to explain it over and over again---I have a ton of friends and family and colleagues and it would be never-ending. At the same time, it seems weird to send out a mass email, though at least that would get it over with.
I really don't think my sex life is anyone's business.
Any suggestions for telling people as simply as possible? Should I send a mass email? Announce it on Facebook?
Any advice would be much appreciated!