CheatedHi guys i'm new to the forum but need to talk to someone. I met my husband a year ago and was instantly swept off my feet. He was a widow, with his own home and a lovely car and a what seemed to be a nice lifestyle. To top it all he was a lovely, caring, warm man. Now I had been on my own for some 10 years so this was all wonderful to me. Within 2 months he had wisked me off to Vegas and married me. I was extatic and happier than I had ever been in a long time.
We had NOT made love as he told me he was on a medication for a couple of weeks which gave him ED. .................. One year later we have still not made love and i find he has a serious heart condition (just had a pacemaker fitted and is awaiting mitral valve replacement and a bypass) and he is taking some serious Blood Pressure Med and heart Meds FOR LIFE........ Now I love him but I feel very cheated. He knew he had heart problems but never told me . At only 47 I am going crazy. The cuddles and kisses have got less and less and to add insult to injury I am living in his house 50miles from the family that love me. I am lonley, lost and feel unloved.
I'm sorry if you think I am ranting on but i am so sad...
dinkypink 46-50, F 13 Responses 0 Nov 18, 2012