Why Are We Frozen In Our Misery?After years of my SM...I am numb. I feel little if anything emotionally. I feel dead to this marriage. After years of trying, I have lost the desire to try anymore. I find it odd how unemotional I am. But with all that being said...why can't I do anything? We don't talk about it...do anything...we just exist. I know I want to separate...but can't bring myself to do anything?! Why?? Even if I knew I had the most perfect life waiting for me I don't think I could move...WHY? What is it that keeps us stuck in our misery??
I do have children...I tell myself it's probably for them...but I know they can see and sense the heaviness of this unhappy marriage. Why am I so afraid?
What was it that finally pushed you all to action? I feel like a caged animal...but unable to fight. :-(