Newbie- Lonely In Totally Non-initmate MarriageHi, this is my first time writing this down or posting in public, so please bear with me. I'm 35 and haven't had any kind of intimacy with my husband in over 2.5 years- before that was 8 months and before that over 12 months- get the idea. I know times because we are fortunate in that I semi charted fertile times of cycle n those 3 times resulted in 3 pregnancies. But without wanting to sound selfish or offensive I was bit disappointed to be blessed so quickly! lol
We've been together 6.5 yrs married 4.5. I know it's early doors compared to some people but to be able to count number of times your husband has ever had close to sex with you in near 7 years, on 2 hands- then it makes me sad for our future :(
I've brought topic up- a lot at start, then not for a while so as not to upset him, and now every 2 mths or so. We had a good chat towards start of the year and he said would make an effort to sort his demons. But now almost another year has passed.
I know it' not a matter of having an affair, some days I am in that mood, but ultimately its more than act of sex, it's fact he chose me to marry but can't be bothered with me in real life- but what do I do? It's been so long and I am feeling myself switch from 'in love' to 'friend love' :(
PS we have 2 daughters aged almost 2 and 4 x