Verbally AbusiveWent to the docs this morning for a depression check up and to deal with my cough. Described my relationship and the GP wrote down on the screen 'verbally abusive partner'. I don't know why it makes me happy, but it does. It's documented.
I'm starting to learn how to shrug it off a bit better, but lately he's got me with a few zingers. He's started criticising me through my son, saying things like "Mommy's not very good at that..." or "That was very silly of mommy, wasn't it?" The other day I was walking through to the kitchen and the first thing he says to me all morning was "Once a day is enough." I didn't know what he was talking about, so I asked him. He said "Once a day is enough to tell ____ [our son] you love him. You're a bit excessive." For days, every time I told my son I loved him, that echoed in my mind.