Didn't See That Coming...So, after our talk last night, I walked away with a mixed bag of feelings. Of course, last night was a complicated night anyway, given that I had (tried to) cut off my potential affair partner. More on that another time, for now, I'll say that we're still not going to have any affair.
Anyway, shortly after coming here and reading the responses from my last story, in which there was a strong feeling (one I didn't necessarily disagree with) that my wife was probably ok with the direction things were headed.
Now, I'll get past the sex question and say that it didn't come up tonight.
However, she tearfully told me she didn't want to lose me and that she needed me and didn't want me to go and the kids needed me, etc. She suggested counseling, something she turned down a year and change ago. She apparently forgot that, because she wondered why I had never brought it up if I was so upset. When I told her she turned it down already, she apologized.
So, this sorta throws a monkey into my wrench. I'm keeping one eye open, in case this is some sort of diversion while she works another plan. But one thing she's never been good at is sneaking and lying. Of course, I won't underestimate, but if she's being at all untruthful, the indicators are usually pretty plain.
Curious on thoughts here. It could be legit, but I admit that I could be the hard sell at this point. It could be trickery, but I'm not so sure.
iamalsokolya 31-35, M 16 Responses 1 Nov 28, 2012