Toxic Rejection = Self-blame?from the female perspective in a sexless marriage it is so difficult to hear constant chatter about men LOVING sex. "men dont turn it down" or "men are ALWAYS interested". well not my MAN. i know there are usually underlying issues. he has ED and avoids most physical contact, saying why try just to be disappointed. he also refuses to follow through with medication; makes excuses that the Rx is too expensive. so as hard as i try not to blame myself and/or feel bad, it has certainly taken its toll on my already low self-esteem. it may be crass but i ask myself... "am i unf*ckable"?
what sense do you make out of the total rejection and resulting dejection?