There's Talk And There's The TalkSo, my wife and I have talked about our lack of sex in the past, but we have not had The Talk. You know the one where you lay it on the line, you really express your total frustration and hurt.
I have read many of the stories, felt many others hurt. I have been reluctant to really share as the pain and the realization that sharing my story is admitting that I too am really in this boat. So I really don't have the right to ask, but I will anyway.
Those of you who have had The Talk, how did it go? What did you do that made it go well? How do you do it without just ripping into your spouse, which my hurt wants me to do.
Most if all, for some it was a productive process, what made it successful. It's easy to do it wrong, how can it, if it can, go well?