I've been a member for just a few days and reading the posts makes me know I'm not alone. It's so good to know that I'm not the only one. My husband is not interested in me physically at all. It's weird and extremely hurtful and makes no sense. I work hard at staying WHP and I know I dress nicely and for the most part look good. My girlfriends get tired of sex and when I've stated that we never ever do, the first question they ask is if he's gay. Nope, just no sex drive whatsoever. If he were gay, it would be so much easier to understand. It doesn't sound like anything I'm saying is new to any of you. We're all living it. Thanks to all of you for sharing.