Just got back from the hospital after fracturing a vertebrae and my wife is trying trying to punish me for leaving her with our children and their behavior for nearly a week. I am reassessing my desire for marriage counseling at this point. I am exhausted and hurting from trying to do too much yesterday to give her a break. I fell asleep at 8:30 last night on the couch and felt no real desire to try and make it to the bed where overweight and angry lay sleeping! I am losing my grip on civility with her and question if there is any amount of therapy that would be beneficial. Forget sex, how about basic human decency?