Marriage Therapist DiscussionWe discussed alot about how i feel stressed at work to come home to more stress and no stress relief. We agreed that sex was the ultimate stress reliever. We talk about my wifes past and her current job as a nurse. He figured out that shes stressed her self and needs some of her stress taken out of her hands. The only thing i can do to take away some her stress is clean the house.
So here's what i'm going to do. I'm going to keep as much of the house clean as possible. I'm not going to ask her for sex so she doesn't feel pressured. I'll see how long i can keep that up. If this doesn't work, i'm all out of options. The only thing i want in life is a wife to want me, want me as in honey come home because i want you now. I can't remember the last time i was wanted sexually. I'm only wanted to life heavy things and take out the trash.
You women wonder why we look to other women for affection when we have you at home. Simple, it's because we can't read minds. We don't know you want us, we have to hear it and feel it physically. If there's something that's bothering you and preventing you from wanting us sexually and expressing it, then tell us. Tell us what bothers you and the reason your not having sex more is because of it.