I Have A Headache Is Real!I am almost two years out of my SM (my God, has it been that long???)
I am in a new relationship with a man who has turned out to be a very sweet, attentive, considerate and giving man.
One day recently when things were getting a little hot between us leading up to round 2 or 3 that day he suddenly stopped. He made a face, rubbed his forehead and said "I am sorry, I just had a headache come on." We stopped and I brought him some water and stroked his back for a little while. He fell asleep in less than 3 minutes of having his back rubbed. His breathing changed and I knew he was out, so I flipped off the light and fell asleep myself.
I didn't put too much thinking to it but a little of me was apprehensive. I've heard the excuses - "I'm tired", "I have a headache", "my stomach hurts", "the moon is too full tonight", "what will the pets think if they hear us?" - a few too many times in my SM not to feel somewhat jaded about it. But my goal is to not make this relationship pay for the sins of the past one(s), so I let it go, snuggled up with him and fell asleep.
It was much to my groggy amazement when he woke up feeling better a few hours later and picked right back up right where we left off.
Interesting... sometimes you can really have a headache and it makes you not want sex right then but - here's the shocker - you still want it later when you feel better. Did you guys know that?