Update - 6 Months Out Of The HouseWell - here I am....
I officially left my sexless home 6 months ago and I am happy t update that my divorce was finalized 6 weeks ago.
So, while all is not behind me, seemed a good time to come by the forum that helped me so much and provide an update.
So - most importantly - my teenage daughter. How is she doing? GREAT! This is the best news of all. I could not have imagined in my wildest dreams how mature & able to adjust she is. I am thrilled. Best of all our relationship is arguably better than ever!
How about my ex-Wife. Guess what - SHE IS FINE also. it wasn't easy, she wasn't happy, but now it is over - and...well....life does in fact go on. how did she do it? Well she did it so well for the same reason we never had sex - we weren't in love!
How about me? Well I can't even explain it but I have never been happier. I have a beautiful & loving woman in my life. We go on dates, have "sleepovers", we even took a long weekend vacation. It is terrific.
What can I say? I cant believe I stayed in that crap marriage as long as I did. I was paralyzed in fear that had no basis in reality. I worried about things that turned out to be irrelevant, and gave no thought to some things that were relevant. Regardless, I wasted a ton of time and damn I wish I had it all back.
I sleep like a baby. Smile all the time. Look forward to my weekends.
I know I can't communicate it in a way you would be inspired to leave (if that is your ob
I know so well your pain - stay strong. Plan. Execute. YOU CAN.