My Sexless MarriageI dunno where to start but i guess it all started after my wife got pregnant and we had our first child. I have been married nearly 3 years now and with a beautiful daughter.What's bugging me is that I realize that i am going through the same same situation as all of you readers.
I could understand that maybe having sex during pregnancy could be a wee bit dangerous but what about after giving birth. This may sound embarrassing but i think it's nearly 2 years now that i have not even had an intimate moment/time with my wife. It's as if she has lost interest in me.Not only don't we communicate much, she also does not touch me.And i don't mean in a sexual kinda way. It's as if i disgust her. We sleep on the same bed but that's about it.Nothing more.She used to cuddle up to me but now all that seems like a distant memory.
She has hinted for me to get into shape.I have done that.I'm going to gym everyday and have got back into shape.I figured that out and have done as she wishes.So when i ask for sex, she refuses.I get the same response:"I don't feel it anymore. I don't feel like having sex". Issit common for women to lose their sexual appetite after giving birth?
Like most of the people here, they say that when they are refused, it just sucks the confidence out of you.Issit me? Or is she falling out of love from me?
Heavyarms 26-30, M 18 Responses 2 Dec 8, 2012