What Happens When You Tell Him?Last week, I told my H that some point we just have to be honest with each other...that maybe we are just not compatible...it was my first step in getting to the "I'm leaving you part."
* I have my reasons for needing to wait a few more weeks...my decision won't waiver, that's not what I'm posting about.
He screamed that I was giving him an ultimatum. I told him I was giving him honesty. Since then we haven't spoken a word about it and he has done nothing but be a TOTAL JERK. The tension is thick....and I just can't stand to be around him anymore. Is this how a typical refuser reacts? Do they get nasty and withdraw even more than I thought humanly possible?
Or, is it that he senses what I am doing? Is he losing control and can't stop it?
Those of you that have left....did your refuser just get plain spiteful after you told him/her?
Please....I need some answers to feel sane. I'm going crazy living with this man.
nutmeg99 36-40, F 17 Responses 0 Dec 8, 2012