Our Morning ConversationWe both couldn't sleep early this morning so we started to discuss our problems with intimacy, affection, and SEX. I'm bitter bc we haven't had any sex since the end if September. I don't know the last time we shared a kiss other than the standard kiss on the cheek before going about our days.
She told that She doesn't think our situation will get better bc we are sexually mis-matched. Any progression with affection and intimacy will be overshadowed by our lack of sex.
She said it felt like it was forced or like a chore. When we did have sex she was very vanilla and lazy. She felt like she did it bc I complained about the infrequency of sex.
When she stated her feeling I knew at that moment that we were done but just hanging on bc of comfort and the kids.
I refuse to live like this anymore. I'm glad she was honest with me before we wasted each others time trying to save this relationship.