People Stereotyping The Woman In A Sexless Marriage..In my experience I think people automatically assume that we the woman are a reason for the sexless marriage.
These are some of the things I had to deal with..
My inlaws actually at one point adviced me "you need to get some victoria's secret in order to make yourself more attractive, make him want to have sex with you..."
Very offensive because I could easily have frequent flier miles with VS, I keep myself in tiptop shape just to make up for the sexlessness in the marriage.
There is nothing wrong with me, I dont even have to show off my VS stuff or wear racy clothes and guys still check me out! And with my ex BF 11years ago, I used to wear granny panties and we still had mindblowing sex!
Over here I have tried to be everything and done every move in the book, short of acting like a **** star in the privacy of our bedroom and still Nothing(for last 11years)!
So somehow when people act like something were wrong with me as a result of which my husband may not want to have sex with me is completely wrong and offensive!
Some of my girl friends have made remarks like "you cant leave him Just for sex!"
I feel marginalised as a woman when people assume that women dont need to have sex.
Is there anyone out there who have been at the recieving end of stupid comments by people who dont know anything about your situation?
uma1980 31-35, F 15 Responses 5 Dec 12, 2012