Maybe They Just Have Memory Issues...Of course the title of this is written in jest, but I'm sure we've all had a similar discussion at some point with our refusers.
The wife was working overnight and texted me to find out what day she was on for her pill because she had a new pack, and left the open one at home. I told her what day followed up with the line "Like it matters". Of course the current dry spell according to her(dryer that usual) was due to her having a minor leg surgery and her having a cold that lasted a couple weeks. I said "But it's only been 1 time since August", to which she said it hasn't been that long. She said "sorry, I was hoping for something to happen recently but you got a cold". Yes I do have a cold, but I didn't last week, or the week before. As I've said in my other stories, I really don't care, I've given up on any hope for a decent sex life and really don't even try anymore. I don't really desire her anymore except when nature tells me to think otherwise.
I find it interesting, and a bit humorous, for someone who has stated that sex isn't that important to her, to tell me that my recollection is off. Just another example of the alternate reality refusers live in. She'll never remember correctly the last time we did it, but she sure as hell remembers the last time I brought home flowers or did anything nice for her. You decide if it's coincidence.