I Told Her How I Felt And Still NothingI sat my wife down and told her we have to talk. I told her i'm miserable and i understand she's tired all the time. I told her i would relieve as much burden while she's going for her masters degree. I told her i need her, i need our connection. She responded saying "you need more booty". I told her it's not just that, getting booty means nothing, i want to feel wanted. I want to hear her say she wants me, in a sexual way. Not i want you to take out the trash or pick up the milk. A simple text message telling me how much you want me is enough. I told her if shes too tired for sex that night, tell me that you'll rok my world tomorrow. She said she didn't want to lie about sex the next day because she doesn't know how she'll feel that day.
There is nothing wrong with me physically or financially. The problem is that her priority in life no longer includes me. How could any marriage survive this torment. Women can't hold more then five priorities in their life. The house, the Son, the Daughter, Work and last her huband. Struggling to stay on the priority list. Little does he know that anything she deems more important than you will knock you right off. In my case, it's currently school. She's going for her masters now so that means another couple of years of school and another couple of years of sex every couple of weeks.
I don't want anything in life but happy healthy kids and to make love with my wife. How can women just ignore their husbands needs. I told her i was horny and she just said owe (also known as to bad for you). Before marriage it was sex if the wind blow on use, before kids it was sex at the mention of procreation, after kids it's sex when she feels life it.
I don't want to cheat on my wife, but my uncle told me when i got engaged. "You better find a mistress now". I didn't know what he meant until now. I love my wife and my beautiful family. My kids are fantastic and i love them so much. But if some girl in the same situation said let's meet and **** eachothers brains out every now and then. Then return to our lives no questions asked. How could i turn that down.
Even after i told my wife that i want to hear her say she wants me, i still hear nothing. What if i get caught cheating, then i would throw away everything i have now. It would be all my fault because i couldn't keep my **** in my pants. I don't know how long i can take this misery.
Thanks for letting me vent.
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