Does Everyone Just Love Your Refusing Spouse?They do mine. My family gone so far as to say that if I ever get divorced, it's my fault, and that I'd be losing something wonderful. He's the guy that always has the answer, that people call if they need help, and that is generally just plain amiable. He knows this, and relishes in it.
So why don't I like him too?
I wish that just refusing sex was as bad as the relationship got. He's quite skilled in psychological warfare. Sometimes I catch myself agreeing to things I shouldn't agree too, or feeling forced into something. Win-Lose arguments. You probably know the type.
I used to be strong.
One day, I will leave. Then everyone else in my life will hate me, because they think he's just perfect.