I Feel So AloneLike so many relationships, ours began with hot passion and exploding fireworks. We were pretty much in bed all day and all night. We would have sex sometimes 4 or 5 times a day. Then suddenly, out of nowhere, 6 months into it all, it stopped.
At first I was very confused. But she assured me, it wasn't me, I wasn't doing anything wrong. She simply lost all desire for sex.
This was the beginning of some very hard times in our relationship. There were many discussions, along with arguing, crying, yelling, etc. While at the same time, I loved her tremendously, more than anyone I've ever known. I've always known she is the person for me. I don't want anyone else. This person is, simply amazing. I'm no fool, I've been in several relationships, and those all seem like a joke to what I have with my wife.
We've tried so many things... discussions, doctor appointments, medications, spicing things up (lingerie, toys, fantasizing)... yet still, we probably average sex about every 10 days, which I know, it could be a lot worse... but then there's those times when we go 4,5,6 weeks...
Coping with this problem has been a tremendous challenge for me. I don't really have any close guy friends to speak with. I feel embarrased to tell my coworkers.
I simply cannot live like this forever. I have a very high libido.
But I cannot give up on my best friend. She would do it for me.
Thanks for reading.