What Would You Do?My husband and I have been married for 3 years and have been together for the past 13 years. We have always had a great sex life. With in the past year he has not wanted to have sex with me.
Our marriage has been very rocky to say the least and 6 months after we were married he left me and had an affair. We reconciled and he has been home for the last 2 years. During this time he has left and stayed with friends when things weren't going well. Every time he has left he has made a dating profile looking for sex yet he won't have sex with me.
He claims he needs to see a doctor because something is wrong. We don't have insurance or the extra money for him to see a doctor and he won't access the money he has invested in a house with his ex. Still, why would he be looking for sex with someone else? I have tried talking to him about this and it turns into a fight every time.
So he just told me today to go find myself a boyfriend. That isn't what I want. I want a healthy relationship with my husband! His actions don't support what he is telling me at all. He is on **** sites all the time and flirts with women too.
I think it's time just to call it quits and move on.