My husband and I haven't had sex since 2005. I used to ask him for it and try to talk with him about it, but I stopped any mention of it a few years ago. I've completely stopped caring anymore. I'm exhausted. I feel like I have to be respnsible for everything we do together. He's a very kind and generous man, but I am so tired of feeling like I have to do it all. I always thought we'd have a child. Will probably will never happen now. I feel like we're polite strangers at home. I know he loves me, but he's just so childlike and incapable of accomplishing even the smallest things. He's a wonderful person and friend, but not a very good husband. He's terribly overweight. I can get past the weight issue, but he doesn't seem to understand how his neglecting this part of our marriage for so long has impacted how I feel about him. I feel bad because I know he can sense that my feelings for him are gone. I wish I could change that but don't think it's possible anymore.