Thrown For A Loopif you've been following my stories you're aware that i have been quietly trying to prepare my exit. the preparation has involved some research.
in the past couple weeks i've discovered some devastating financial items. my H has completely and utterly pulled the wool over my eyes. i was able to place a block against one of the accounts this afternoon. the other bank is quietly giving me a hard time.
it looks like my exit will be moved up, post-haste, with a hard talk next wednesday night. i knew there were things he was keeping from me; we've always had separate finances and *his* money has always been none of my business. yet, *my* finances have areas been open book (more or less, not to the extent of him having access to my statements or etc, more a function of i am responsible for so much of the household expenses that i *have* no $$ left at the end of the day).
what i've learned in the last 24 hours alone is such a betrayal of trust that as stated i placed a block against the account without even talking to him first.
won't say more for now...just wish me luck getting thru Xmas without incident so my daughter has a chance to enjoy the holiday. don't know how i will hold it together till then.
oh and yeah he's half heartedly been talking about us having sex again. as if. that train left the station dude, and it ain't comin back.
smithy8015 46-50, F 11 Responses 1 Dec 18, 2012