Thought This Was CoolSo the hubby has been going to therapy. One of the things the therapist wanted to see was his personality profile. He gave him a couple sites to take a test The following is one:
There is also one called Myers Briggs.
Anyway, I was interested and took it too. Turns out I am what is known as an ISFJ which stands for Introvert, Sensing, Feeling, and Judging. The H is ENTP which is Extrovert, Intuitive,Thinking, and Perceptive. COMPLETE OPPOSITES!!!!
A thought hit me. Don't know if I'm right, but I wonder if the refused spouses tend to be more sensing and feeling while the refusers tend to be intuitive and thinking. Of course I could be wrong since he wasn't a refuser until the last few years.
If anyone is interested and can get the spouse to do it also, let me know. Just wondering.