You Can Too!Been afraid to post here for a long time....my ex followed me here and made me feel horrible for sharing here. That's okay, though....as is everything else he TRIES to make me feel..
I am OUT, and have been for a good long while, and divorced for about half a year. And here I can get to my point: even leaving, even DIVORCE doesn't mean you can be separate, if there are children involved. This has been so much harder than I EVER envisioned.
My kids love new man, I LOVE new man, but ex doesn't want new man in kds life.....at all.
Both kids and new man think I am a horrible person for caring about how this makes ex husband feel....and I REALLY WANNA just let go and be happy! But I still feel responsible for ex....and when he says "I don't want our kids around HIM..." even though kids have TOLD me they love "new man", and won't say the same about their father???
I GET that I am just looking for affirmation, but really? Where else could I look??
gonebabygone 41-45, F 6 Responses 0 Dec 23, 2012