Also in a sexless marriage, feel angry sad abd confused all at the same time
mica mica
31-35, F
3 Responses May 21, 2007

I'm with you

But wait a minute, Stamincal, you say that we "choose our own moods" but that's not what Mica is talking about. Mood and honest emotional response are two different things. I sway back and forth between emotions, too, and the only reason for it is that I choose to be in a marriage with a woman who is emotionally unavailable (which is, let's face it, a form of abuse). Mica doesn't need to keep to keep his or her chin up. Mica needs to be free of this abusive relationship. I need to be free of mine.

The only comfort I can offer you is to let you know that the emotions you are feeling are very normal for the situation in which you find yourself. Don't look for them to go away. You will sway back and forth between those emotions from time to time...especially anger. Be careful to not let these emotions rule you. Remember no one can ever MAKE you feel anything. We choose our own moods. Take care and keep your chin up.