The TalkWhere did it go?
I wrote about this before and got some helpful advice, now it's disappeared.
Ok. Lets do it over. Please comment.
Our marriage has been mostly sexless for a few years now, but always affectionate, sometimes flirty. Seemed like it could start again at any time. Health issues have contributed to this, some his, some mine, but now, I am almost recovered from frozen shoulder and had hoped we could rediscover this aspect of our love together.
Just before Christmas a parcel arrived, one corner was torn, quite badly, enough for me to see that the contents were black, red and lacy. To allow him the surprise I left it, " undiscovered" in the porch.
No lingerie in my gifts this year.
Leaving me wondering. Where do I go from here?
Reading posts here I decided to have " The Talk"