Has Anyone Been Honest With Their Spouse And Discussed The Sexless Relationship And The Desire To Outsource?Has anyone been honest with their spouse and discussed the sexless relationship and the desire to outsource?
Yes, I have. In fact, I have been saying it for 8 years. Deep down he knows that the marriage has not been a fair one; that I was left alone to fend for myself and the children. I will move on and it will be better, when I drop most of my expectations of him. We talked about me purchasing a home in a different state, etc.. Still, how can you have a relationship with another person while you still married? If you are seeking love and companionship (and your spouse will never interfere) does the paperwork matter anyway? I need a real relationship and can't hold on anymore. For those of you, who would like to bash me, call for counseling, divine intervention or whatever, please let me be. It's hard enough and has been for a long, long time