Text Message Update #3I was awaken at 5 am to my husband screaming at me for everything that has happened to us in the past years since we have been married.
He blames me for everything ... It was my fault that he was in this situation where he is always broke. (It's not his fault that he decided to take another job that he KNEW he would have to take a 6% pay cut?!?!?!!!)
He said ...I'm the one that wanted to have children & cause stress on his life. (My Girls are the best thing that i can say has EVER happened to me in my life!!!!)
He said......I'm the one that doesn't pay my fair share of bills around here (we have an arranged set of bills... He pays his, I pay mine, & we split the remainder.... That was HIS arrangement from the start!!! Now that he makes less $ .... He expects me to pay more!!!!)
He screamed at me for going out NYE & not being responsible.... He asked me why didn't I have the decency to text him to let him know where I was & to let him know i was ok.... I reminded him that I DID tell him where I was, who i was with, & what i was doing ......... I asked him why didn't he have the decency to text me if he was really concerned?
I asked him why didn't he ever touch me? He said that he didn't "know where I have been!"
He called me a *****, a selfish ****, a *****, and so many other unimaginable things that a husband would call his wife.
That's the straw that has literally broke everything between us!!!
I have NEVER been unfaithful !!! I hate this man with everything inside of me .... I can't even look at him anymore ....
I have tried and tried and tried to stay, to be a faithful & to be a caring wife, but I can not handle this anymore. .....