Use It Or Lose It ( A Cautionary Tale)As you may or may not know, my marriage has been slowly dying the sexless life for years. In the beginning it was good sex but never frequent enough for me.
then 2 yrs ago things happened and he had health issues that took him into a spiral downward. And over those years we have become almost completly sexless. once every couple months or so. And now it is to where i am torn.
He is a good man and in many ways i still love him. But things are not good.
Several months back i noticed a serious decrease in the diamater of his shaft.
And last night he made a lackluster attempt at romance. (because i told him i was done being mad at him for refusing me, and that with therapy i would choose to stay or go)
So during the failed attempt of last evening i discovered something that shocked me. His testicles are gone. They have simply vanished. I am wondering if he simply has none because of a hormone issue, or if they left because he never uses them? Silly i know but a girl wonders.
And yes he is on hormone replacement, its not helping.
So boys and girls... it is food for thought... Maybe the old saying is true
USE IT OR LOSE IT
lunazule 41-45, F 7 Responses 0 Jan 3, 2013