I wish I'd married my idea of a real man. I thought at the time he was. I was so wrong. And I'm not just talking about out utter lack of sex. Apparently he was glad to marry a tomboy because he thought I would not expect him to do the 'man' things. I am still a woman. I am a strong woman, I am capable, I am sexy, I know my own mind. I do not need this BS in my life. I do however need support(emotional and financial) and love and need someone to want and need me. Why can't he? I know the why doesn't matter. Simply the fact that he doesn't/can't is telling enough. Having a rough time. Getting to the end of my rope.