Reverting To Type.You can see patterns of behaviour evolving over time. People change but also become true to their inner self over time.
I suppose as time has gone on I can see family traits emerging in my wife. I get along with her mother well and we have always had a good relationship. However, she is not a warm and affectionate person. She never hugs, in fact she seems to a phobia about any show of affection. She is a practical person, who will always help others. She will talk and listen and think of others so in this respect we get along well.
I can see my wife becoming more and more reserved, inhibited of love and affection. I am a warm person who needs love and contact. I have a high sex drive and need intimacy and love to play games and have fun. All this has died and become a routine.
So, do I stay or leave? It is my decision and one that is not easy to arrive at, can she change, is it me? All questions with no answer.