The D Word Has Been SpokenStbx came over to talk. I prepared myself for the conversation all day, worried I would back pedal due to guilt. Well, he made me strong because of the very first thing he said when he sat down. And, I qoute word for word..... "I drove around Friday night, lost, but I realized I will be ok no matter what...I csn lose the house.. money.. dog...you... and I will be fine."
I kept that sentence at the forefront of my mind throughout the next hour. Sure...he threw in other thoughts as the time went on.. he said he was still attracted to me and loved me... but the first thing he said made that all a mute point in my mind. He said he "loved me" five minutes before he left....after we finalized we are divorcing..
We will press on with that as the goal....divorce.