I She Getting It?I recently despaired that 6 years into our marriage my wife still doesn't get it.
For Xmas this year one present she gave me was a small box with lubricant and "body candy" in it. I was shocked and delighted to open it and thought maybe our sex life would liven up. We had sex once in November and once in early December so I had hoped sex would be more frequent after Xmas and since I had taken some time off over the holidays assumed it would pick up right away, but the first (and only so far) sex we had was January 1st.
Just today she shared this on Facebook. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/01/i-pledge-to-have-more-sex-this-year-daisy-whittemore/
I again am a little shocked, she has semi-publicly acknowledged we have a problem (she shared it via a message to some recipients not on her wall, she's not that exhibitionist).
Is she getting it I wonder? I shall wait and see how this plays out over the next few weeks and then start making plans one way or the other....