How Could He..?

I was with my ex partner for 4yrs and it was always a struggle everyday was like fighting a new battle.
I put with his ignorance and selfishness and on top of that I had to deal with his family saying allsorts about me and he never once stood up for me always made excuses,let me down never around when I needed him and then to top it all I find out he had one more trick to make me feel even more stupid I find out he's been seeing other women,I feel so stupid that I allowed this to get this far,why I didn't end it years ago.
nano10 nano10
5 Responses Jan 14, 2013

Thank you all for your kind words. X

Go easy on yourself, we all make mistakes, we all feel stupid, and we all stay wayyyyy too long... you have the rest of your life to find someone who will treat you the way you deserve, with respect.

We all make mistakes.Bad choices, bad judgements of character, trying to fight the wrong fight.
Move on......use the experience to guide you in the right direction from here.
He wasn't worth the stress and heartbreak.
Sometimes the things we endure make us aware of what we really deserve and we couldn't have seen this before.
Good luck to you moving forward.

I may have read this all wrong, but you refer to him as an ex partner, then later on speculate 'why didn't I leave earlier' ?

I am assuming you are out of the relationship now.

We all stay too long in dysfunctional relationships.

Tread your own path.

Ouch. That's the ultimate disrespect. Confirm, then confront. Nobody deserves that. Counseling and reconciliation or get out while you can. Good luck.