Should I Wait
My wife and I have been married for over 32 years, we dated in high school married other people and after failed marriages both of us we got together. I've always been a person who kept secrets such as ****. More than 15 years ago she discovered my stash and went off the deep end saying that I cheated on her. This is when she shut me out no more physical contact period. I had always thought it would get better but it has not. So we now sleep in different bedrooms and only hold hands. Should I wait until I retire or ask for a divorce. Oh and by the way she has no interest in seeing professional help.