A Simple QuestionWe've likely all confronted this question - either through self-doubt or via spouse or third parties laying it on us.
Would you leave a marriage, break your vows, and destroy a family, just for sex?
I'd like you to consider an answer (which helped me), which goes to the heart of the matter, and demolishes the nasty presumptions in the question.
Answer: What better reason?
On my deathbed, if there's anything I'll regret, it's not acting sooner. The years when I was not expressing myself and connecting with love and intimacy were barren and wasted. For me, the meaning of "sex" is huge, it's part of who I am and what makes life worthwhile - for me.
Money, status, disagreement over kids (other than harm) - not so much.
hl42 51-55, M 22 Responses 20 Jan 18, 2013