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I Did It

I've learned from the posts here. There are only three choices- either accept it, take a lover or get a divorce, plain and simple. Well, I have the papers and I'm filing on Thursday, not so much because of the lack of sex (18 years) but because of everything else. My friends have encouraged me and I know now that there's life after a dysfunctional relationship. I wish my spouse well, and I am excited about the future! Thanks to all the posters here who enlightened me and encouraged me to "grow some."
steelguitarist steelguitarist 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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There may yet be a genuine "we" in your future.

But either way, an authentic "me" is way way better than an inauthentic "we".

Tread your own path.

Congrats on taking action to get to living a higher quality of life.

Best wishes!