Monday Morning Bluesin my last update i mentioned the financial shenanigans i discovered during my research and prep for my exit.
well, fri morning the credit monitoring service i subscribed to informed me i have been downgraded due to an enormously skewed debt-to-credit ratio. i forwarded the notice to my h in an e mail in which i used a lot of all caps. basically told him this is all his fault and i don't care what he has to do, i am not selling anything more of mine, it is his debt, he'd better be prepared to pay it off.
and......no response. more PA bullish!t this weekend. he raised issues of concern that have absolutely nothing to do with the great big giant elephant in the room.
in fact yesterday after him broaching (yet another) red herring issue to discuss, i said: "you are avoiding the great big giant elephant in the room. are you ever going to discuss it with me, or are you going to continue burying your head in the sand?" no response. i then said something along the lines of "you may choose to bury your head in the sand and avoid all discussions but it ain't going away. see how much longer that'll work for ya."
i can just picture him blaming this on him "never receiving" the e mail. yah. no worries, he won't be able to ignore process server serving him with actionable papers.
this week before the atty meeting i will take time to think out and put in a spreadsheet a parenting plan, a budget, and so on. i want to make as much prefab and prepared for the atty as possible, hopefully save on fees.
i am in a melancholy place but will soon kick myself out of it this morning, am getting hope from reading stories from you all.